Scott Kiloby and Dan McLintock are partnering, along with a support team of certified facilitators, to offer a New Personal Mentorship Program that provides the same level of support they used when developing the Kiloby Inquiries tools. Learn more here.
“The real work happens between sessions” – Scott Kiloby
Not only that, but the real work never ends: between sessions, after treatment, when your spouse leaves dirty dishes in the sink, or when a loved one dies… life continues to mirror what’s left unsettled in us.
That may sound daunting… because it is. But only if you’re stuck believing those old, deeply ingrained deficiency stories about yourself. Someone who is “bad” and needs to become “good”. Someone who is “unenlightened” and needs to become “enlightened”.
So much healing takes place in letting yourself off the hook, to be able to see through the expectations to be something other than you are. In seeing the payoff for the never-ending search clearly, we can also see the pattern of leaving oneself “now” to chase ideas of a better “later”.
“Nobody’s expecting the Toyota to be a Rolls Royce” – Paul Hedderman
This is what the New Personal Mentorship Program is all about. It’s about what happens after treatment and between sessions.
It’s about learning to be with yourself thoroughly, continuingly increasing intimacy with yourself (and by extension, others and life). It’s about learning the skills to bring more kindness and gentleness to your experience. It’s about finding your tribe, a community of others who crave authenticity and freedom just like you do.
Ultimately, it’s about building a foundation of skills so that you can continue to enjoy the ebbs and flows, the now-journey of life, with increased presence, peace, and freedom.
The New Personal Mentorship Program includes:
• Ten hours of live interaction with Scott and Dan
• Twenty hours with the Mentor Training Assistants (all experienced KI-Certified Facilitators)
• Twelve month access to the training materials, including the manual, videos, and supporting pdfs
• Four, one-hour, one-on-one sessions with KI-Certified Facilitators
• The opportunity to be facilitated for up to twelve months by facilitator trainees
• Ongoing community support through Facebook group and membership site
These tools were developed to deal directly with our issues of seeking and addiction by looking directly at the drivers. By avoiding the trap of short-term, rule-based fixes, or by counting clean time, we can resolve the underlying factors that cause us to seek behaviors that, however temporarily, reduce pain in the first place.
For the first time, these tools are being taught in a brand-new way, with a focus on creating the foundations for a lifelong practice.
No one needs a guru, a parent, a friend, a politician, or anyone else to tell you what’s good for you and how to make it happen. Be your own guru.
This is the new model of spirituality, creating independence, and in turn, nurturing healthy interdependence. Helping people heal themselves and, by extension, the world.